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The Game of Life!

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One of the great traditions in many families at Christmas time is playing board games. I remember fondly some of the games and now find myself revisiting many of them with our children. Memories of laughter fun and occasional disputes come flooding back. It’s great to see many of the old games still around!
After the Game it all goes Back in the Box So to a book that is challenging me at the moment as I listen to it in the car. It is by John Ortberg entitled, “When The Game Is Over It All Goes Back In The Box.” It’s a book that looks at the meaning and purpose of our lives comparing life to a game of Monopoly.
Monopoly board gameWe can win the game by accumulating so much but at the end it simply goes back in the box. Everything we have here is temporary, we can’t take it with us.
The author points out very clearly that there are two ways to seek fulfillment - fulfillment in having and fulfillment in being. Most human activity is caught up in the chase for fulfillment in having. There is so much stuff that we long to have.
It strikes me that Christmas is a time of year that highlights more than any other the great chase for fulfillment in having. We all get caught up in a chase for so many material things, very little of which is actually needed. Parents all complain that children get too much while many folk complain Christmas is now too commercial and its meaning is lost. I always hear the complaints but I have rarely encountered someone seriously and bravely seeking an alternative way. It’s like we are all on one of those old roundabouts in the children’s playgrounds which were really dangerous to get off. It’s much easier staying on hoping things will slow down or change.
Yet our seeking fulfillment in having has been checked perhaps for some. This has been a year where we have had to search our hearts for what really counts. There has been economic hardship and many folk in the parish have known the pain of unemployment and loss of earnings. We ask what really counts in life?
Serious illness, car accidents and recent funerals have also cast into clear view questions of what we really value in life. In the light of eternity what counts? As we look back on our lives at their end what really will matter?
So we are drawn to Christ who shared his being with us that we might be with him.
Christ who always values people more than things. Christ who lives dangerously to love much. Christ who seeks to heal our broken world. Christ who leads us in ways we never imagined. He is far more fulfilling than material things. A life in obedience to Jesus is a life without regrets.
A youngster observed, “Life has no rewind button.” Time is rushing on. Christmas tree
So as we enter 2010 can we seek a life of being - a life with Christ.
Both as a church family and in our individual lives, let us pray that we chase the things that really matter. May Christ lead us, not from tomorrow but from this moment. Now. Today.
Church of Ireland  CrossRichard's signature Captain Richard Beadle
On behalf of myself and my family Pauline, Ruth, Alicia and Asher we would like very much to say, Thank you so much for your friendship and support throughout the year.
Have a happy Christmas and a Christ filled New year.

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News Items

Prayer Meetings Change with the Weather!

With the change in weather we have tried moving our prayer meetings to Tuesday evenings and making them more locally focused. Having reflected on their support we will revert back to some of the previous times in January. The meetings will be open to folk from across the group

Day / Date

Time

Parish Group

Location

Tuesday 15th December
8 pm
Ballyconnell Templeport

Tomregan Hall

Tuesday 22nd December
8 pm
Kildallon

Kildallon Rectory

Wednesday 6th January
2 pm
Corrawallen

Jo Hyland's

Tuesday 12th January

10.30

Kinawley

Vi & Mackie Breen's

Weekly Prayer Meeting

 

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Confirmation Meeting

The first meeting for young people exploring the possibility of confirmation will be on Sunday 10th January 4 - 6 pm in Ballyconnell Minor hall.

Confirmation

 

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Surgery Hours  

Day

Date

Time

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Tuesday

15th December

9.30 - 11.30 am

Monday

21st December

12 midday - 2 pm

Tuesday

5th January

9.30 - 11 am

Thursday

14th January  

10 am - 12 midday

 

 

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Sustentation / Free Will Offerings

Sorry to mention this again but the year end is fast approaching. Once again can we gently encourage people to ensure that their offerings are with the various Parish Treasurers by the last Sunday of the year, ie 27th December - ideally the Sunday before - 20th December. If we can comply with this request then the Treasurers will have opportunity to bank your gifts before the end of the financial year, ie 31st December. This will enable us to produce a set of accounts based on the balance in the account at that date. Our procedures have had to tighten in line with new charities legislation. Unfortunately, if your gift has not been banked by the 31st December than it will not appear in the 2009 accounts.
We are also greatly appreciative of the work of our various money counters, recorders and the Parish Treasurers, and would ask you to get your gifts to them rather than treasurers having to come to you, a task which is difficult, time consuming and embarrassing for all concerned. Once again though a huge thank you for your much valued support in giving to the Church.

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Christmas Eve     Bells ringing     Bells ringing

Come to the Stable

Christmas tree        6.30 pm in
Kildallon Church

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Nativiy
 

Once again this year we will have a special service for all Ages on Christmas Eve. This is a very family orientated service celebrating the wonder of the New born King right at Christmas itself. Using songs and drama we will share the story of Christ’s coming, with you the congregation joining in the nativity. It was great having it last year and I again encourage families to come along if you possiby can.
In a really informal fun way please come to join the story. If at all possible come with costumes on, or to put on. Come as angels, shepherds, kings - you know the sort of thing! It needn’t be anything elaborate. It’s a rare occasion dressing gowns and t-towels won’t raise eyebrows in church! Once we are all ready, we will follow the Christmas story around the church. Even if you can’t dress specially please come! It's a service that adds greatly to our Christmas memories, helping put Jesus Christ our Lord at it’s heart. Hope to see you there.

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Santa Claus

Christmas Party

Our Group Children's Christmas Party will take place this Saturday 19th December 3 - 6pm. All children within our group are invited for an afternoon full of games fun and food. There may even be a visit from a funny man in a red suit!

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Bereavements

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With sadness and hope we have said goodbye to some dear folk recently. Our sincere sympathies are extended to the family circles of William (Willie) Storey, Evelyne (Eva) Smith, William (Willie) Taylor, and Olive Crawford.

Our thoughts are also with Rev Steve Clarke and his family following the recent death of his Father.

They will be remembered fondly and we continue to ask that God would show his comfort and peace to family and friends even in the midst of grief.


 

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Some Memories of 2009
Vision Day April 09Vision Day April 09Vision Day April 09
Opening of New Ballyconnell Central SchoolOpening of New Ballyconnell Central SchoolOpening of New Ballyconnell Central School
School Opening May 2009 (Not yet available on line (as at the end of 2009))
Early morning Easter Service     George Hamilton IV St Valentine's Day Concert
Left: Early morning Easter Service, May Newsletter-23
Geoff and family farewell JuneGeoff and family farewell JuneGeoff and family farewell June
Gospel Concert September 2009Gospel Concert September 2009
Harvest Concert September BallyconnellHarvest Concert September Ballyconnell
You can find most of these photos and many more by clicking on the link below the row of thumbnails.
The photos of the Opening of the New Central School are not available on line yet.
www.swanlinbar-kildallon.kilmore.anglican.org/group-news

 

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George Hamilton IV Christmas in the Country Concert

Recently we were delighted to have the American country gospel singer George Hamilton IV visit us with his "Christmas in the Country" concert.
Around 60 folk were present as George shared a number of reflections on the season, he played a mix of his own songs and carols. It was a gentle restful introduction to this busy season! We were delighted that we were able to raise some 400 euros for Alzheimer's care in counties Fermanagh and Cavan through hosting this event.
Our thanks to our friends at Templeport Community centre for hosting this and all of you who supported the event.

There are lots more photopgraphs of this event here: www.swanlinbar-kildallon.kilmore.anglican.org/group-news/george-hamilton-12-09

George Hamilton IV Christmas in the Country Concert
George presenting cheque to Freda Carson
George Hamilton IV Christmas in the Country Concert
George presenting cheque to Trevor McKay

 

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The Little Match-Seller

By Hans Christian Andersen  

It was terribly cold and nearly dark on the last evening of the old year, and the snow was falling fast. In the cold and the darkness, a poor little girl, with bare head and naked feet, roamed through the streets. It is true she had on a pair of slippers when she left home, but they were not of much use. They were very large, so large, indeed, that they had belonged to her mother, and the poor little creature had lost them in running across the street to avoid two carriages that were rolling along at a terrible rate. One of the slippers she could not find, and a boy seized upon the other and ran away with it, saying that he could use it as a cradle, when he had children of his own. So the little girl went on with her little naked feet, which were quite red and blue with the cold. In an old apron she carried a number of matches, and had a bundle of them in her hands. No one had bought anything of her the whole day, nor had anyone given her even a penny. Shivering with cold and hunger, she crept along; poor little child, she looked the picture of misery. The snowflakes fell on her long, fair hair, which hung in curls on her shoulders, but she regarded them not.

Lights were shining from every window, and there was a savory smell of roast goose, for it was New-year's eve—yes, she remembered that. In a corner, between two houses, one of which projected beyond the other, she sank down and huddled herself together. She had drawn her little feet under her, but she could not keep off the cold; and she dared not go home, for she had sold no matches, and could not take home even a penny of money. Her father would certainly beat her; besides, it was almost as cold at home as here, for they had only the roof to cover them, through which the wind howled, although the largest holes had been stopped up with straw and rags. Her little hands were almost frozen with the cold. Ah! perhaps a burning match might be some good, if she could draw it from the bundle and strike it against the wall, just to warm her fingers. She drew one out—“scratch!” how it sputtered as it burnt! It gave a warm, bright light, like a little candle, as she held her hand over it. It was really a wonderful light. It seemed to the little girl that she was sitting by a large iron stove, with polished brass feet and a brass ornament. How the fire burned! and seemed so beautifully warm that the child stretched out her feet as if to warm them, when, lo! the flame of the match went out, the stove vanished, and she had only the remains of the half-burnt match in her hand.

She rubbed another match on the wall. It burst into a flame, and where its light fell upon the wall it became as transparent as a veil, and she could see into the room. The table was covered with a snowy white table-cloth, on which stood a splendid dinner service, and a steaming roast goose, stuffed with apples and dried plums. And what was still more wonderful, the goose jumped down from the dish and waddled across the floor, with a knife and fork in its breast, to the little girl. Then the match went out, and there remained nothing but the thick, damp, cold wall before her.

She lighted another match, and then she found herself sitting under a beautiful Christmas-tree. It was larger and more beautifully decorated than the one which she had seen through the glass door at the rich merchant's. Thousands of tapers were burning upon the green branches, and colored pictures, like those she had seen in the show-windows, looked down upon it all. The little one stretched out her hand towards them, and the match went out.

The Christmas lights rose higher and higher, till they looked to her like the stars in the sky. Then she saw a star fall, leaving behind it a bright streak of fire. “Someone is dying,” thought the little girl, for her old grandmother, the only one who had ever loved her, and who was now dead, had told her that when a star falls, a soul was going up to God.

The Little Match SellerShe again rubbed a match on the wall, and the light shone round her; in the brightness stood her old grandmother, clear and shining, yet mild and loving in her appearance. “Grandmother,” cried the little one, “O take me with you; I know you will go away when the match burns out; you will vanish like the warm stove, the roast goose, and the large, glorious Christmas-tree.” And she made haste to light the whole bundle of matches, for she wished to keep her grandmother there. And the matches glowed with a light that was brighter than the noon-day, and her grandmother had never appeared so large or so beautiful. She took the little girl in her arms, and they both flew upwards in brightness and joy far above the earth, where there was neither cold nor hunger nor pain, for they were with God.

In the dawn of morning there lay the poor little one, with pale cheeks and smiling mouth, leaning against the wall; she had been frozen to death on the last evening of the year; and the New-year's sun rose and shone upon a little corpse! The child still sat, in the stiffness of death, holding the matches in her hand, one bundle of which was burnt. “She tried to warm herself,” said some. No one imagined what beautiful things she had seen, nor into what glory she had entered with her grandmother, on New-year's day.


 

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During this time of vacancy I am delighted that we are able to have the range of services provided (See the back page of the Newsletter or scroll to the bottom of this page). Our thanks to visiting clergy for enabling this. I am though aware that some churches will not have a service. Whether or not we are still in vacancy, I hope that these will receive priority when we look at our Easter arrangements.
A highlight last year was our nativity service on Christmas Eve when the congregation joined in the drama of the night. It is a service we will be having again in Kildallon on Christmas Eve. Richard
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Happy Birthday Jesus Baloons
 

 


 

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Christmas Traditions (in Other Parts of the World)
Singing bird

Birds

It is the custom in Scandinavia to place a sheaf of grain on top of a tall pole for the birds to eat, or popcorn chains, or even just seeds and bread are placed on a pole and set up outside where the birds are known to congregate. This is done on Christmas Eve or Christmas Day. The sight and sound of outdoor festivity at the bird’s Christmas tree adds to the indoor celebration of people.
Birds are also part of the fun story of the Twelve Days of Christmas, with the "partridge in a pear tree" and swans and hens, to name a few.

 

Bird
Holly

Holly

On the night that Jesus was born, it is said that fruit appeared on trees, even in cold areas. Maybe the red berries of England and France reminded people of this story. Early Christians in Rome were not allowed to celebrate Christmas. The Romans celebrated the Saturnalia festival, using holly. The Christians used holly to disguise their Christmas celebration.
The bright colours of the holly made it a natural sign of rebirth and life in the winter of northern Europe. In late December, people placed holly and other evergreens around inside of their homes as a promise that the sun will return.

 

Holly
Mistletoe

Mistletoe

Mistletoe was supposed to have healing powers. It was also a symbol of peace and enemies would stand beneath a spray of the plant to make peace compacts. Sometimes the peace would be sealed with a kiss.
It became tradition that a kiss beneath a mistletoe branch held good luck. For each kiss, a berry was removed. When all of the berries were gone, that piece of mistletoe lost its magic.

 

Mistletoe
Plum Pudding

Plum Pudding

The first plum puddings were made around 1670. Plum puddings do not contain any plums. They were a stiffened form of earlier plum porridge, with added lumps of meat, dried fruits (raisins, currants), rum and brandy, butter, sugar, eggs and many spices. They were made in large copper kettles several weeks before Christmas. People took turns stirring. A coin, thimble, button and ring were mixed into the pudding, and found when the pudding was eaten. The coin meant wealth, the button or the thimble meant that the person would not get married, and the ring meant that the person would get married

 

Plum Pudding
Poinsettia

Poinsettia

In Mexican legend, a small boy had no gift to bring to church on Christmas day. As he prayed, a plant grew at his feet, bright red and green. This plant became known as the “Flower of the Holy Night.”

Between 1825 and 1829, Dr. Joel Roberts Poinsett was the American ambassador to Mexico. He brought the plant back to his home in South Carolina. It became a popular Christmas plant and was named after him. Actually, the “flowers” are really leaves! We now have different colours – red, white, pink.

 

Poinsettia
Sheep & Shepherd

Sheep & Shepherds

Sheep and other animals are part of the Christmas tradition. Sheep were said to have been in the stable when Jesus was born. The shepherds, who were in the fields, heard the angels sing about the birth of Jesus. The shepherds were considered to be common people, not religious or political leaders. Their inclusion in the story showed that the birth of Jesus was for everyone.

 

Nativity with shepherds & ssheep
Star

Star

Stars were used as decorations to symbolize the star that lead the three kings or wise men to Bethlehem to see the baby Jesus. Some people put a star on the top of the Christmas tree. The light from candles remind people of the light of the star. Stars are part of the tradition of the Jews, with the Star of David as their symbol.
Variously descried of the supernova or a conjunction of planets, there is discussion about when it actually occurred. The year 7 BC is probably the true birth year of Jesus.

 

Star
Tree

Tree

Christmas trees, undecorated, go back to the 700’s in Germany. Martin Luther, a religious reformer in the 1500’s, saw stars shining through the branches of evergreen trees and put candles on a tree in his house.
In a German story, children gave a visitor food and shelter. The visitor (Jesus), said that their tree would have ripe fruit at Christmas, so we hang balls and bright things on trees. Rev. Charles Follen introduced the Christmas tree to the Unitarian congregation in Lexington, Massachusetts. Pennsylvania. The Dutch had used trees in their celebration a hundred years earlier.

 

Tree
Christmas stocking

Stocking

Socks and shoes are used to collect things from St. Nicholas or Santa Claus. In Spain, Holland and Belgium, children fill their shoes with carrots and hay for St. Nick’s white horse. We may leave mince pies for Santa and something for the reindeer!. St. Nick is said to leave coal for children who have not been good and toys for those who have been good. By legend, a girl hung her stockings to dry and St. Nick left her gold.

 

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The Three Kings

Three Kings came riding from far away,
Melchior and Gaspar and Baltasar;
Three Wise Men out of the East were they,
And they travelled by night and they slept by day,
For their guide was a beautiful, wonderful star.

The star was so beautiful, large and clear,
That all the other stars of the sky
Became a white mist in the atmosphere,
And by this they knew that the coming was near
Of the Prince foretold in the prophecy.

Three caskets they bore on their saddle-bows,
Three caskets of gold with golden keys;
Their robes were of crimson silk with rows
Of bells and pomegranates and furbelows,
Their turbans like blossoming almond-trees.

And so the Three Kings rode into the West,
Through the dusk of the night, over hill and dell,
And sometimes they nodded with beard on breast,
And sometimes talked, as they paused to rest,
With the people they met at some wayside well.

"Of the child that is born," said Baltasar,
"Good people, I pray you, tell us the news;
For we in the East have seen his star,
And have ridden fast, and have ridden far,
To find and worship the King of the Jews."

And the people answered, "You ask in vain;
We know of no King but Herod the Great!"
They thought the Wise Men were men insane,
As they spurred their horses across the plain,
Like riders in haste, who cannot wait.

And when they came to Jerusalem,
Herod the Great, who had heard this thing,
Sent for the Wise Men and questioned them;
And said, "Go down unto Bethlehem,
And bring me tidings of this new king."

So they rode away; and the star stood still,
The only one in the grey of morn;
Yes, it stopped --it stood still of its own free will,
Right over Bethlehem on the hill,
The city of David, where Christ was born.

And the Three Kings rode through the gate and the guard,
Through the silent street, till their horses turned
And neighed as they entered the great inn-yard;
But the windows were closed, and the doors were barred,
And only a light in the stable burned.

And cradled there in the scented hay,
In the air made sweet by the breath of kine,
The little child in the manger lay,
The child, that would be king one day
Of a kingdom not human, but divine.

His mother Mary of Nazareth
Sat watching beside his place of rest,
Watching the even flow of his breath,
For the joy of life and the terror of death
Were mingled together in her breast.

They laid their offerings at his feet:
The gold was their tribute to a King,
The frankincense, with its odour sweet,
Was for the Priest, the Paraclete,
The myrrh for the body's burying.

And the mother wondered and bowed her head,
And sat as still as a statue of stone,
Her heart was troubled yet comforted,
Remembering what the Angel had said
Of an endless reign and of David's throne.

Then the Kings rode out of the city gate,
With a clatter of hoofs in proud array;
But they went not back to Herod the Great,
For they knew his malice and feared his hate,
And returned to their homes by another way.

By Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

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Please Could You Contribute to future Newsletters?

If you have a digital camera or a camera on your mobile phone please take photographs of your local parish activities. We would love to hear from you or, just send your photos to the group office.

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Church of Ireland Cross   Prayer Points for the remainder of December and Early January  Church of Ireland Cross

Let us continue to listen to God in prayer and develop a daily routine of praying for the following on the day of the week indicated;

Sunday:
For our lives to be given wholly in worship to God. That God would continue to transform our hearts to follow him;
Monday: For a new Rector for our group. That God would be preparing the person of his choosing and that we as his church would continue to grow as we prepare for his coming
Tuesday:
For all those struggling in these difficult economic times. Ask that families would know the hand of God's protection over health and relationships;
Wednesday:
For all those known to us struggling with illness. We pray especially for those who are receiving cancer treatments at this time. We also pray for the families of those bereaved;
Thursday:
For the ongoing development of our church halls. That these venues would really help our churches make valuable contributions not just for ourselves but for the communities in which we live;
Friday:
For all those seeking to be confirmed in the coming year. We ask that the preparation would truly help make Jesus gift of life real;
Saturday:
For Beryl Baker in the Chaco region of Paraguay. For her health and safety in travel and wisdom as she ministers in dangerous situations.
Also pray that 6 year old Edoh, her family and friends will be able to grow experiencing and knowing the love of Jesus through the help of the charity Compassion, her school and church.

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Day and date

Time

Location

Service

Leader

Friday 18th

8.00

Kildallon

Advent

Rev Hazel Hicks

Sunday 20th

3 pm

Corrawallen

Advent

Richard

8.00

Ballyconnell

Advent

Richard

Christmas Eve

2 pm

Breffni

HC 1

Rev Steve Clark

6.30 pm

Kildallon

Nativity

Richard

8 pm

Kinawley

HC 2

Canon Reggie Twaddell

9.30 pm

Ballyconnell

HC 2

Canon Reggie Twaddell

Christmas Day

10.00

Newtowngore

HC 2

Rev Hazel Hicks

11.30

Kildallon

HC 2

Rev Hazel Hicks

Sunday 27th

11am

Templeport

United

Richard

Sunday 3rd

10 am

Swanlinbar

HC

To be confirmed

10.30

Newtowngore

MP1

Richard / Jo

11.30

Templeport

HC

To be confirmed

12.00

Kildallon

MP 1

Richard / Roy

Sunday 10th

10.00

Kinawley

MP 1

Richard

10.30

Corrawallen

MP 2

George

11.30

Ballyconnell

MP 1

Richard / Mervyn

12.00

Kildallon

MP 2

George

Sunday 17th

10.00

Swanlinbar

MP 1

Richard

10.30

Newtowngore

HC

To be confirmed

11.30

Templeport

MP 1

Richard

12.00

Kildallon

HC

To be confirmed

1 after Service type indicates Traditional    2 after Service type indicates Contemporary
After the United Services there will be a cup of tea in the Church or local hall 
Enjoy a cup of tea after the united service

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