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Newsletter No 7  December 2007

“…and they will call him Immanuel – which means, “God with us.””

I don’t know about you but I like to have people around and about me! There is something warm and comfortable about human contact. I often joke with Naomi when we have been apart for only a few minutes and ask her “Did you miss me?” at which point I usually get one of those looks or a dig in the ribs to let me know that I have gone too far ….. again! But in all seriousness, separation does bring a sense of sadness and longing to be together again, a desire to feel the touch of that person who means so much to you or to hear the familiar warmth of their voice. This sense of longing for being with those we love is something which has been very prominent in my visitation in recent months. In so many different situations and contexts I have sensed many people hungering after that presence of someone who means so much to them. For some it is a spouse, for others it is a dear friend and still others it is the embrace of a parent. Physical presence is so important to us all, even if we aren’t able to admit it or verbalise it.

But for many in our Group this Christmas that presence of a loved one will not be possible for different reasons. For some, the separation will have come about through emigration. For others it may be that a child has left home through marriage. And yet others will feel a great emptiness in the loss of a loved-one through death. None of these feelings are particularly pleasant, they hurt and the scars of that hurt take time to heal. But the Good News for all of us who are feeling frightened and abandoned this Christmas is that God is with us. That so often rolls off our tongues without much thought, rather like a parent saying to a child who has fallen and skinned its knee “There, there, it’ll be alright.” But at times it is far from alright, at times it really hurts and no amount of words can take that hurt away, at times we may just feel like lying down in a corner and never getting up again…..and the Bible says to each one of us “God is with us.” The reality of this truth is that they are not empty hollow promises but rather words of comfort for those who mourn. They are words of healing for those who are hurting. They are words of strength for those who feel weak and abandoned. God is with us in each situation, often unseen and unheard but undoubtedly there with us. We see this glorious truth revealed in the Christ child as God himself left his throne in heaven to be with us. He took on flesh so that we might be able to relate to Him and understand that he cares about us… He is with us. He got splinters in his hands, dust on his feet, dirt under his nails and nails in his wrists so that we might know he cares for us…He is with us. GOD WITH US! What a wonderful truth to celebrate this Christmas as we reflect on this past year. May we live our lives in the knowledge of that truth that God cares enough for us to humble himself and become man, to be with us.

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Three Wise Men come to praise Jesus
A message from Geoff & Naomi

Please do not feel that there is a lack of Christmas Spirit around the Rectory this year when you do not receive a Christmas Card from Geoff & Naomi!   After much prayerful consideration, we both agreed that with 6 Parishes to consider that we could be sending somewhere in the region of 100 cards on top of our own family and friends and that this really was not appropriate. We have therefore decided that whatever cost would have been involved in buying and sending these cards will be given to a Charity which benefits folk specifically at Christmas time and we had thought that Operation Christmas Child would be a very suitable cause. Please do accept our sincere good wishes to each and every one of you this Christmas time - may it be a time of both peace and blessing to both you the reader and those whom you love and care for .

Naomi & Geoff wish you a Very Happy Christmas

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The Nativity by Petrus Christus, c. 1445

 

News Items

GROUP NEWS

Christmas Holiday

Geoff will be on holidays from Saturday 29th December to Saturday 5th January inclusive.Any pastoral emergencies during this period should be referred to the Rev Ivan Ruiters on 00 44 2866348235

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Travel documents

Office Administrative Assistant

Progress on the Group Office in Ballyconnell is good, with the renovations now complete. It just remains for some electrical work, painting and the putting down of a floor-covering to be done and we will be ready to move in! We now need to engage someone for the role of Admin Assistant to work in the office for a total of 15 hours per month. If you are interested in the position, then please contact Geoff for details of criteria and an application.

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Office desk

SKY Fellowship (Swanlinbar - Kildallon Youth Fellowship)

This resumes on Sunday 20th January in the Parish Hall, Ballyconnell. Even at this very early stage we are beginning to form good friendships and establish some degree of trust with one another, an integral part of what we are about in our group. All young people of secondary school age and above are most welcome to come along each Sunday evening between 6.30pm and 8.30pm.

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Confirmation Classes

These resume after the Christmas break on Monday 7th January at 7.30pm in the Rectory, Swanlinbar. Each class lasts no more than one hour.

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Senior’s Dinner

What a brilliant evening we all had at the Senior’s Dinner in Ballyconnell Parish Hall. We had an absolutely outstanding meal for over 50 seniors with all of the trimmings that you would expect at any high-class hotel, and all provided by the local church! The evening’s entertainment was provided once more by Joe Healy and Robert Wilson who played without ceasing for an hour and a half, more than enough for even the most energetic!! And we were treated to John’ rendition of the Horn Pipe once more this year, thank you John for your agility and willingness to perform for us.

Hornpipe at Senior's dinner

Sincere and hearty thanks are due to the Forward Steering Group who arranged this significant function for our Seniors and served them on the day also. And to anyone else who contributed in any way whatsoever, thank very much for all your support.

I believe that people are gradually beginning to see what our Forward Group is all about and the real benefits of doing things together. Through things like the Senior’s Dinner, friendships are made and relationships are built and in this way our Church grows stronger.

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Swanlinbar Sale of Work

The annual sale of work took place on perhaps the wettest day so far this winter! Takings were slightly down on last year with a total of €1560.33 and £365.34 being raised but sincere thanks are extended to everyone who took part in the sale or supported it on the day.

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WWW. (Worship Word Witness) .

had a great year in 2007 and they are launching their program for 2008 with Bishop Ken Clarke speaking and Mark Ferguson leading worship in Cathedral Hall, Kilmore at 8pm on Saturday 5th Jan 2008. WWW. is open to all young adults aged 18 or over (married couples are not excluded!).

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Welcoming of Capt Richard Beadle, his wife Pauline and their two children

The Rectory is nearing completion, the removal van is booked, the long awaited day is drawing near! Even as I write these notes I am preparing the finishing touches on the order of service for the commissioning of Richard to serve as an Evangelist within our Parish Grouping. All the preparations are coming to a conclusion and I’m sure I am not the only one who is really looking forward to the arrival of the Beadle family. I am very excited about the opportunities this presents to us to develop new ministries as well as developing existing good works. But if I am entirely honest, I am also a little anxious as we all enter a new time of change in our Group. It will take time for all of us to get to know one another. For you the reader there will be a new leader with a new style to get used to. For Richard there will be over 500 people to get to know as well as the names of the various townlands, junctions and intricate lane-ways!! For me, it will mean a fresh period of listening and reflecting as well as directing and giving overall leadership within our Group. This is rather daunting, but I do trust that the God who has called us together in our Grouping will continue to journey with us as we grow in our knowledge and love of one another. This past six months have been massive for me, and I suspect for you the reader. But I just know that the next six will have even more challenges and blessings in store for each one of us.

We can start this New Year, this new season on the “right foot” so to speak by gathering in Kildallon Parish Church on Sunday 6th January 2008 at 3.30pm to say YOU ARE WELCOME to the Beadle family. I would dearly love to see the Church filled that day, not for my sake or because the Bishop is coming. I would love to see people with thankful hearts, who are glad that God has sent Richard to serve us, gather that day to say welcome to a family who have responded to the call of God on their lives as they leave city life to minister in our rural Group. Please do make this service a priority in your diary and lets all gather in the name of Jesus to welcome this lovely family as they begin a new phase in their Christian service.

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Richard Beadle with wife Pauline & children

To protect the children their faces have been altered

Catering for the Welcoming Service

Many of you may already know that this service is to be followed by refreshments in the Kildallon Community Centre. I have asked the ladies of the MU to arrange the catering and it has been agreed that the ladies of the Kildallon part of the Group are to provide tray bakes, whilst the ladies from the Swanlinbar part of the Group are to provide sandwiches and scones

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Tea cup

Informal Praise Service

This is a monthly service, usually on the second Sunday of each month at 8pm. The venue for each service changes due to this service being a work of collaboration between our Group and the Parish of Holy Trinity & Kinawley (Derrylin). Through this service we are actively seeking to do something a little bit different and perhaps arguably more relevant, with particular emphasis on our teenagers and young adults. Having said this though, it is a service which we hope has appeal for all ages and many retired folk regularly attend and are blessed through it. The format is very relaxed and informal with a combination of traditional and contemporary music and multi-media material. Each month we have a visiting speaker and at the first service of the New Year our speaker will be the Rev Steve Clark of Belturbet Parish. Steve will be speaking on the theme of “Forgiven, but forgiving?” I believe as I travel around and share with folk in their homes, that one of the most significant stumbling blocks to growth in our Church and in our lives is this whole area of forgiveness. Many, many people in our Parishes understand what it means to be forgiven. But an area of real poverty exists in relation to us then standing in the shadow of that gracious forgiveness God shows to us through the Cross and being able to extend forgiveness towards those who have wronged or hurt us – not being able to forgive others is a real obstacle to growth. I would encourage many people to come along to this service, not just because it is the informal service, but specifically because this is such an important issue and if we want to see our Church grow it should be a top priority. Our next Informal Service will be held in Kildallon Parish Church on Sunday 13th Jan 2008 at 8pm.

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Forthcoming youth events

Mike Edwards has written to inform me of some forthcoming events for our young people.
Dublin on Ice on Saturday 12th January 2008 – a day coach trip to Dublin with January Sales, 10 Pin Bowling and Ice-skating. The cost is €25 with a discount for families of 3 or more. Contact Geoff for more details and booking forms.
Youth Weekend at Share Centre from Friday 22nd Feb to Sunday 24th Feb – this was what we took our confirmation candidates on two years ago and is open to all our young people. Contact Geoff for more details if interested.

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Watchnight Service

Unfortunately we have had to cancel our Watchnight Service but the Dean of Kilmore has written to let me know that he will be holding a service in the Cathedral at 11.15pm on Mon 31st Jan – everyone is most welcome.

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Rev George William Browne

This is an abridged version of the address given by Archdeacon George Davison at the funeral service of Rev George Browne
in Oughteragh Parish Church, Ballinamore
on Monday 10th December 2007

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  George Browne was born just over 65 years ago on 11 October 1942. He was the eldest child of Samuel and Susan Browne and a source of great joy to them. Along with his sisters Annie and Margaret, George grew up on the family farm at Corgar, where indeed he lived his whole life.
George spent the whole of his education locally here at Oughteragh National School. He was an able boy, who loved to read and he obtained a scholarship that would have enabled him to attend Cavan Royal School. However there was plenty of work needing done on the farm and Sam felt that his son would be better employed working alongside him and so George’s lifetime career in farming began at the age of 14.
In boyhood days George was fascinated by the trains that ran along the old narrow gauge railway that passed not so far from the back of the farm.
George took a great interest in the farm, and particularly in his cattle. He was a quiet, gentle sort of a man and he had a great love for the animals that were in his care.
He was a good neighbour and a well thought-of member of the community. As in all farming communities, neighbours mean a great deal to one another, and George appreciated the friendship and support of his neighbours and was glad to be able to give a hand in return or to enjoy a chat with them when there was a moment or two to spare.
When he was just 18 years old, George joined the little Orange Lodge that met at Corgar – this was to be the beginning of a lifelong association with the Loyal Orders. George’s lifetime of service meant that he rose to prominence. He was Co. Grand Master of the Grand Orange Lodge of Leitrim, a position that he had occupied for the last 25 years. In addition, He was also Deputy Grand Master of the Royal Black Institution in Co. Cavan and a Past President of the Apprentice Boys Club in Cavan.
But though he took great pride in these positions, what meant most to him was the opportunities for friendship that he found in the various organisations. He loved to meet with others and he would travel the length of the country to attend a meeting or a service or a parade.
George first met Pearl through a family friendship with the McAdam family. Following Stephen McAdam’s tragic death, George’s friendship with Pearl took a new direction and in due course they were married on 4th June 1985. It was the beginning of a very happy and fulfilling twenty-two years of married life.
George had from his earliest days been a faithful member of this parish. He had been involved in all aspects of it’s life from Sunday School to Select Vestry and the faith that was nurtured here played such an important part in his life.
Like Isaiah in our Old Testament reading today, George felt the call of God on his life, not only to be a faithful follower, but also to be one who was a preacher of Good News. It is over 30 years ago that he was first licensed as a lay reader by Bishop Edward Moore and in the years that followed, what service he gave to the parishes of this diocese!
It will not surprise you to know that George reckoned that he had led worship in every parish the length and breadth of the diocese.
It was my privilege as Director of Ordinands to assist George through the process that led to selection, training and ordination as a member of the clergy.
It was with a sense of great fulfilment that George was ordained deacon in Kilmore Cathedral in June 2002. George loved his work as an ordained minister. He gave himself tirelessly in the service of people and in the service of the God who had called him. Like so many of our Non-Stipendiary Clergy, he worked long hours, and gave more of himself than would have been asked or expected.
I think if I was asked to sum George up in one word it would be ‘faithful’. He was so dependable – if he said he would be somewhere or do something, you could be sure that it would happen. And that was what endeared him to so many.
George worked continuously, and he even kept going when his health was not as good as it ought to have been.
His sudden passing on Saturday morning, whilst working on the farm, has sent a shock through us all. What will we do, how will we cope, how do we face the future? Many answers will have to be worked out. George Browne may have been a small man in stature, but he leaves a big gap in so many places.

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Politically correct St. Nicholas

‘Twas the night before Christmas and Santa’s a wreck…
How to live in a world that’s politically correct?
His workers no longer would answer to “Elves,”
“Vertically Challenged” they were calling themselves.

And labour conditions at the North Pole
Were alleged by the union to stifle the soul.
Four reindeer had vanished, without much propriety,
Released to the wilds by the Humane Society.

and equal employment had made it quite clear
That Santa had better not use just reindeer.
So Dancer and Donner, Comet and Cupid,
Were replaced with four pigs, and you know that looked stupid!

The runners had been removed from his sleigh;
The ruts were termed dangerous by the E.P.A.
And people had started to call for the cops
When they heard sled noises on their roof-tops.

And to show you the strangeness of life’s ebbs and flows,
Rudolf was suing over unauthorized use of his nose
And had gone on Geraldo, in front of the nation,
Demanding millions in over-due compensation.

So, half of the reindeer were gone; and his wife,
Who suddenly said she’d enough of this life,
Joined a self-help group, packed, and left in a whiz,
Demanding from now on her title was Ms.

And as for the gifts, why, he’d ne’er had a notion
That making a choice could cause so much commotion.
Nothing of leather, nothing of fur,
Which meant nothing for him. And nothing for her.

Nothing that might be construed to pollute.
Nothing to aim. Nothing to shoot.
Nothing that clamoured or made lots of noise.
Nothing for just girls. Or just for the boys.

Nothing that claimed to be gender specific.
Nothing that’s warlike or non-pacific.
No candy or sweets...they were bad for the tooth.
Nothing that seemed to embellish a truth.

And fairy tales, while not yet forbidden,
Were like Ken and Barbie, better off hidden.
For they raised the hackles of those psychological
Who claimed the only good gift was one ecological.

No baseball, no football...someone could get hurt;
Besides, playing sports exposed kids to dirt.

Dolls were said to be sexist, and should be passé;
And Nintendo would rot your entire brain away.

So Santa just stood there, dishevelled, perplexed;
He just could not figure out what to do next.
He tried to be merry, tried to be gay,
But you’ve got to be careful with that word today.

His sack was quite empty, limp to the ground;
Nothing fully acceptable was to be found.
Something special was needed, a gift that he might
Give to all without angering the left or the right.

A gift that would satisfy, with no indecision,
Each group of people, every religion;
Every ethnicity, every hue,
Everyone, everywhere...even you.

So here is that gift, it’s price beyond worth…
“May you and your loved ones enjoy peace on earth.”

Harvey Ehrlich, 1992

 

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Christmas Quiz

What did Adam say on the day before Christmas ?
It's Christmas, Eve !
How do you make an idiot laugh on boxing day ?
Tell him a joke on Christmas Eve !
What do you have in December that you don't have in any other month ?
The letter "D" !
What does Father Christmas suffer from if he gets stuck in a chimney ?
Santa Claustrophobia !
What do you call a letter sent up the chimney on Christmas Eve ?
Black mail !
Who delivers cat's Christmas presents ?
Santa Paws !
Why does Father Christmas go down the chimney ?
Because it soots him !
Who delivers elephant's Christmas presents?
Elephanta Claus !
How many chimneys does Father Christmas go down ?
Stacks !
Why is Santa like a bear on Christmas Eve ?
Because he's Sooty
What did the guest sing at the Eskimo's Christmas party ?
Freeze a jolly fellow !
What party game did Jekyll like best ?
Hyde and Seek !
Did you hear about the man who went to the fancy dress party as a bone ?
A dog ate him in the hall !
What would you do if you saw Dracula, Frankenstein & The Swamp Thing ?
Hope they were going as a fancy dress party !
Why couldn't the butterfly go to the Christmas ball ?
It was a moth ball !
How did the chickens dance at the Christmas party ?
Chick to chick !
Did you hear about Dracula's Christmas party ?
It was a scream !
Did you hear about the party with lots of fireworks, balloons & crackers ?
It went with a bang !
What did Dracula say at the Christmas party ?
Fancy a bite ?
Why couldn't the skeleton go to the Christmas Party ?
He had no body to go with !
 

 

 

 

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A Rare Book

A collector of rare books ran into an acquaintance who told him he had just thrown away an old Bible that he found in a dusty, old box. He happened to mention that Guten-somebody-or-other had printed it.

"Not Gutenberg?" Gasped the collector.

"Yes, that was it!" "You idiot! You've thrown away one of the first books ever printed. A copy recently sold at an auction for an absolute fortune!"

"Oh, I don't think this book would have been worth anything close to that much," replied the man. "It was scribbled all over in the margins by some guy named Martin Luther!"
 

 

 

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Points to Ponder

Imagine the moment...

The wonder of Jesus coming into our world is that He knew all it would mean and yet still He chose to come. His birth meant becoming a man not only for 33 years but forever. We are told in the book of Hebrews 10:5-7 that a body was prepared for Him. Here we come face to face with a mystery so deep that wonder and worship can be our only response. Imagine the moment in heaven when the Son of God departs. God becoming a foetus. God as a new born baby. God as a child . . . . . .

Never the same again

We live in a universe of parallel worlds. One consists of lakes and mountains and temples and inns with shepherds watching their flocks by night. The other of angels and supernatural forces and places called heaven and hell. One night in the cold, dark and starlit sky those two worlds came together.
Little wonder a choir of angels broke out in spontaneous song, disturbing not only a few shepherds but the entire universe. The world would never be the same again.

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Let us continue to listen to God in prayer and develop a daily routine of praying for the following on the day of the week indicated;

Monday: For children returning to school, especially Ruth Beadle as she starts life in a new school
Tuesday: For those bereaved throughout 2007; that their sense of loss would diminish with each new day in the knowledge that God is with us ;
Wednesday: For new beginnings in our Group; that each person would feel valued as we seek to move Forward throughout 2008 ;
Thursday: For all road-users, especially over the holiday period; that there would be a due sense of respect for the law and others;
Friday: For the elderly and housebound; that they would know God’s presence with them this Christmas ;
Saturday: For the Beadle family; that they would settle well and put down roots quickly ;
Sunday: For our leadership team; that they would lead well and lead like Jesus, so that more might grow to know Him.

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C of I Cross   Service Schedule for the remainder of November & December   C of I Cross
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Date
Time
Church
Service
Leader

Christmas Eve

December 24th

2 pm

Breffni Residential Centre

HC 1

Geoff

Monday

24th

9 pm

Templeport

HC 2

Reggie Twadell

 

24th

9.45 pm

Kildallon

HC1

Geoff

 

24th

11.15

Ballyconnell

HC 2

Geoff

Christmas Day

25th

10 am

Swanlinbar

HC 2

Geoff

Tuesday

9th

11.30

Newtowngore

HC 1

Geoff

Sunday

30th

11.30

Ballyconnell

Group United

Hazel Hicks

Sunday

6th

3.30 pm

Kildallon Welcome Service for Captain Richard Beadle

Group United

Bishop Ken & Geoff

Sunday

13th

10 am

Kinawley

MP 2

George Taylor

 

13th

11 am

Corrawallen

United

Geoff & Richard

 

13th

11.30

Templeport

MP 2

George & Robert Clarke

13th

8 pm

Kildallon

Informal Praise

Geoff & Steve Clarke

Sunday 
20th

8 pm

Newtowngore

MP 1

Hazel & Joe

 
20th

11 am

Kinawley

United

Geoff & Richard

  20th 12.00 Kildallon MP 1 Hazel & Essie Magee
 Tuesday
22nd
2 pm
Breffni Residential Centre
HC 1
Geoff & Richard

Sunday

27th

10 am

Swanlinbar

MP 1

George

 

27th

10.30

Corrawallen

HC 2

Geoff & Richard

27th

11.30

Ballyconnell

MP 1

George & Mervyn Foster

 

27th

12.00

Kildallon

HC 2

Geoff & Richard

1 after Service type indicates Traditional Service   2 after Service type indicates Contemporary Service
After the United Services there will be a cup of tea in the Church or local hall  Tea cup

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